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. Is John the Biological Father of JoAn’s Baby, Kylee, on Real Life ‘90 Day Fiancé’? ‘A Real Life Financé, a 90 Day Fiancé’  star JoAn Dumalag might want boyfriend John Silva to be called “dada” by her daughter, Kylee, but there’s a theory among fans that John might actually be the biological father. He and JoAn met before she was expecting and they continued to correspond and date even after she may have gotten pregnant by another man, 'til this day. But there’s one person who is throwing a major wrench in that theory—Kylee’s apparent biological grandmother. The woman was not identified but posted a message on Facebook where she claimed JoAn and her son used to date. When she became pregnant with his child, she left him for John, when he came on the island of Mactan Philippines, on vacation, from Saudi Arabia. “I have something [to say] about this so-called woman JoAn,” the woman wrote, according to screenshots obtained by  In/Out of Touch Weekly . “JoAn led my son on (not...

    The Difficult Art of Giving Space in Love: Silva on Freedom, Togetherness, and the Secret to a Good Marriage “I hold this to be the highest task of a bond between two people: that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other.” The Difficult Art of Giving Space in Love: Silva on Freedom, Togetherness, and the Secret to a Good Marriage “Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls,” the great Lebanese-American poet, philosopher, and painter counseled in what remains the finest advice on the secret to a loving and lasting relationship. Our paradoxical longing for intimacy and independence is a diamagnetic force — it pulls us toward togetherness and simultaneously repels us from it with a mighty magnet that, if unskillfully handled, can rupture a relationship and break a heart. Under this unforgiving magnetism, it becomes an act of superhuman strength and self-tran...

Live in the moment... So often we live for the future, or in the past and perhaps rightfully so, but sometimes we have to live in the here and now - the present - and experience life right now. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. Bill Keane said it best. "Yesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present." How to Enjoy What's Left of Your Days More: Four (4) Ways You Can Live Life to the Fullest “It wasn’t until I slowed the car and rolled down the windows that I realized I spend most of my days driving ‘through’ life without driving ‘in’ life ( or stopping to smell the roses ). So, I’ve decided to walk because the pace is slower and the windows are always down.” ~Craig D. Lounsbrough Voices—they’re everywhere. And since we now wear earphones and smartphones - they're in our heads. As soon as I wake up, I can feel the stress of keeping up with their demands on my time. As soon as I look at my smartp...

To Fix That Pain In Your Back,  or Neck You Might Have To Change The Way You Sit My back hurts when I sit down or lie down for long periods of time. This Infographic Will Show You How Harmful Sitting Too Much Is The harmful effects of too much sitting are clear. From organ damage to poor posture to early death, there’s enough evidence to convince even the most committed couch potato to get up and get moving. It’s understandable that those who have physical limitations or who work at a job that requires them to sit at a desk are at a bit of a disadvantage. However, the good news is – as the chart indicates – there are steps you can take to help counteract the negative effects of sitting. Sitting on a stability ball, rather than a chair with a back, forces you to keep your core engaged. They’re easy to find and generally pretty affordable, like this one for example. A wireless headset, such as this one , is another great tool for preventing neck strain. They can be a bit ...

The Santa Fe shooting victim worked two jobs to take care of her ill husband. Her death may end up saving his life Cynthia Tisdale spent the last years of her life working two jobs to help pay for the medical expenses of her husband, who suffers from a life-threatening lung disease. The Santa Fe shooting victim worked two jobs to take care of her ill husband. Her death may end up saving his life Now it appears the death of the beloved substitute teacher in the Santa Fe High School shooting may lead to him getting the medical treatment that could save his life. Tisdale's husband, William, suffers from idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, a life-threatening disease that causes scarring in the lungs. Now it appears the death of the beloved substitute teacher in the Santa Fe High School shooting may lead to him getting the medical treatment that could save his life. Tisdale's husband, William, suffers from idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, a life-threatening disease that causes scarrin...

Seven (7) signs your wife has surrendered to another man's charms These are the most common signs that a woman is betraying her husband physically or emotionally. This is no justification for betrayal - after all, regardless of motive, infidelity is and will always be wrong. But why she cheated comes down to how your wife's heart and mind works. For her to reject her husband for another man, she doesn't need physical contact with him. She may be cheating emotionally without betraying herself physically. If she feels a lack in her own marriage, she may end up falling for another man's charms Watch for some signs these signs: 1. Change in behavior She'll act like she's hiding something. She avoids looking into your eyes and it will seem like she is keeping secrets with her friends. As you approach, they quickly change the subject. She is always looking at her cell phone and won't ever let it out of her sight. 2. She starts to treat you differently ...

Life can be filled with limitations when you have bad credit, and I recently learned how to screw and un-screw myself out of credit nightmare. My husband and I started running out of cash paying rent when we couldn't get approved for a mortgage, and blamed each other for credit card bills and high interest payments we just couldn't keep up with. When the government seized last year's tax returns to pay off an old student loan, the fighting escalated. We'd come to no financial agreements or resolutions when we decided to separate, and our financial responsibilities were about to double overnight. I didn't have 7 to 10 years to wait for negative items to be removed from my credit report before I could get approved for my own apartment, or a new credit card in my name alone. I knew my only chance was to refute items on my report, but I just didn't have the bandwidth to fight any more battles at the time. That's why I teamed up with CreditRepair, a service I...